Scam Database

Browse our comprehensive directory of romance scam types and techniques.

20 scam types documented

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Danger: 5/5

HybridAI

Pig butchering: the crypto romance scam

The scammer builds a romantic relationship then steers you toward fake crypto investments. Losses can reach hundreds of thousands of dollars.

TinderWhatsAppTelegramSMS

Avg. loss: $20,000 – $500,000+

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Danger: 5/5

EmotionalAI

Sextortion: intimate photo blackmail

The scammer obtains intimate photos or videos then threatens to share them publicly. Paying never stops the demands.

TinderSnapchatInstagramWhatsApp

Avg. loss: $500 – $10,000

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Danger: 5/5

Identity TheftAI

Deepfake video call scam

The scammer uses AI to generate a face in real time during video calls, making video verification useless. A fast-growing threat.

WhatsAppZoomFaceTime

Avg. loss: $10,000 – $500,000+

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Danger: 5/5

Financial

Money mule scam: when the victim becomes an accomplice

The scammer convinces the victim to transfer money through their bank account. The victim becomes a "mule" and faces criminal prosecution.

TinderMatchWhatsApp

Avg. loss: Criminal risk

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Danger: 4/5

Financial

Medical emergency scam

The scammer fakes a hospitalization or serious illness to urgently request money. A classic technique that exploits empathy and panic.

TinderMatchBumbleFacebookInstagram

Avg. loss: $2,000 – $30,000

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Danger: 4/5

FinancialAI

Military romance scam

The scammer impersonates a deployed soldier overseas. The military identity justifies not meeting and creates urgency for money requests.

FacebookInstagramMatchTinder

Avg. loss: $10,000 – $100,000

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Danger: 4/5

Financial

Oil rig scam

The scammer claims to be an engineer on an offshore oil platform, justifying isolation and the impossibility of video calls or meeting in person.

FacebookMatchTinderInstagram

Avg. loss: $5,000 – $80,000

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Danger: 4/5

Identity TheftAI

Celebrity impersonation scam

The scammer impersonates a celebrity (actor, singer, athlete) and uses deepfakes to convince the victim of an exclusive relationship.

InstagramFacebookTikTok

Avg. loss: $10,000 – $830,000

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Danger: 4/5

Identity Theft

Identity theft through romance scam

The scammer uses the romantic relationship to collect your personal data (ID, bank details) and steal your identity for further fraud.

TinderMatchBumbleFacebookInstagram

Avg. loss: Long-term damage

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Danger: 4/5

EmotionalAI

Love bombing and isolation: emotional manipulation

The scammer overwhelms the victim with declarations of love before isolating them from friends and family. A control technique that precedes financial requests.

TinderMatchBumbleFacebookInstagramWhatsApp

Avg. loss: Variable

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Danger: 4/5

HybridAI

Romance scams on Facebook and Instagram

Facebook and Instagram are the most used social networks by romance scammers. Friend requests, comments, DMs: multiple approach vectors.

FacebookInstagram

Avg. loss: $5,000 – $100,000

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Danger: 4/5

HybridAI

Wrong number text scam

A stranger texts you "by mistake" and starts a conversation. This technique is often the gateway to a pig butchering scam.

SMSWhatsApp

Avg. loss: Variable (pig butchering gateway)

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Danger: 3/5

Financial

Travel fee scam

The scammer claims they want to visit you but asks you to pay for plane tickets, visas, or other travel expenses that never materialize.

TinderMatchBumbleFacebookInstagramWhatsApp

Avg. loss: $500 – $5,000

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Danger: 3/5

Financial

Gift card scam

The scammer asks for gift cards (iTunes, Google Play, Amazon) as an untraceable payment method. A simple but extremely common technique.

TinderMatchWhatsAppTelegramFacebookInstagram

Avg. loss: $200 – $3,000

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Danger: 3/5

Hybrid

Inheritance romance scam

The scammer claims to have a frozen inheritance and asks for your financial help to release it, promising to share the fortune with you.

EmailFacebookMatchTinder

Avg. loss: $2,000 – $20,000

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Danger: 3/5

Identity TheftAI

Catfishing: fake identity online

The scammer uses stolen photos and a fake identity to build a fictitious relationship. Catfishing is the foundation of most romance scams.

TinderMatchBumbleFacebookInstagramWhatsApp

Avg. loss: $0 – $100,000+

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Danger: 3/5

HybridAI

Tinder scams: traps you need to know

Tinder is the most exploited platform by romance scammers. Fake profiles, bots, pig butchering, and sextortion all thrive on the app.

Tinder

Avg. loss: Variable

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Danger: 3/5

Financial

Fake matchmaking agency scam

Fraudulent agencies promise introductions to Eastern European or Asian women. Pay-per-letter models, fake profiles, and ghost translators.

WebsitesEmailFacebook

Avg. loss: $2,000 – $20,000

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Danger: 3/5

Financial

Customs package scam

The scammer claims to have sent you a valuable package stuck in customs and asks you to pay fake clearance fees to release it.

FacebookInstagramTinderMatchWhatsApp

Avg. loss: $1,000 – $15,000

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Danger: 2/5

Emotional

Sugar daddy scam

A fake "sugar daddy" or "sugar mommy" offers money for companionship, then asks for registration fees or bank details to steal from you.

InstagramTikTokSnapchat

Avg. loss: $100 – $2,000

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